“How Did I Get Here?” Tacoma Parents Reflect on Losing Home in StoryCorps Interview

Franklin and Sherry Gilliard live in transitional housing with their three children in Tacoma. Image credit: StoryCorps.
Franklin and Sherry Gilliard live in transitional housing with their three children in Tacoma. Image credit: StoryCorps.

Written by Denise Miller, Firesteel Advocacy Coordinator 

The Gilliards never thought they’d experience homelessness. Then the Great Recession hit, and their small business struggled. Drowning in debt, they eventually lost their home and moved their family of five into a shelter.

Their moving story, recorded as part of the StoryCorps “Finding Our Way” project, aired on NPR’s Morning Edition the day after Thanksgiving. Listen to the clip here:

Stories like the Gilliards’ are all too common in our state. During the 2013 Point In Time Count, more than 7,000 people belonging to families with children in Washington state were counted living in emergency shelters, transitional housing, or unsheltered on a cold January night.

Many more children experience homelessness in a different way: Their families stay in motels until the money runs out, or double up with friends and relatives.

More than 60,000 Washington children experienced homelessness in 2013, according to the National Center on Family Homelessness. Their recently released “America’s Youngest Outcasts” report documents the number of homeless children in every state, their well-being, their risk for child homelessness, and state level planning and policy efforts. The infographic below shares how homelessness affects kids in Washington, and ranks our state’s planning efforts relative to other states and the District of Columbia.

The National Center on Family Homelessness reports that Washington ranks 10th in the country for state policy and planning around family homelessness. The fact that we have a Housing Trust Fund to create safe, affordable homes contributed to this positive ranking. Yet last year the state legislature made no investment in affordable housing through this fund.
The National Center on Family Homelessness ranks Washington 10th in the country for state policy and planning around family homelessness. The fact that we have a Housing Trust Fund to create safe, affordable homes contributed to this positive ranking. Yet last year the state legislature made no investment in affordable housing through this fund.

Ranked 20th in the country, Washington is better than average. We can do much more, though.

We know the top causes of childhood homelessness: poverty, the lack of affordable housing, and continuing effects of the Great Recession. We also know the top solution: expanding the supply of safe, affordable housing.

The Housing Trust Fund is our state’s number one tool for creating safe, affordable housing. Yet in 2014, our state legislature invested zero dollars in the fund. If we are going to come closer to our goal of ensuring that experiences of homelessness are rare, brief, and not repeated, our state will need to invest in affordable housing in 2015.

The Gilliards and every other family in Washington deserve the opportunity to live in a safe, healthy, affordable home. We’re going to need your advocacy to make it happen. Stay tuned to Firesteel throughout the legislative session, Jan. 12 to April 27, for actions you can take. The easiest way to stay in the loop is subscribing to this blog; enter your email address in the form below, and prepare to advocate!

  • EducatedMotherof3plus1

    What can the average person do to help considering that the average person is ALSO living at or near or below the poverty level themselves with families to support?

    • Glad you asked! I’d say the top three things that anyone, regardless of their economic resources, can do are:

      1. Vote! We need to elect leaders who are committed to ending homelessness.
      2. Subscribe to this blog, especially if you live in Washington. We’ll give you action steps you can take to make a difference. It’s often as simple as adapting our talking points while calling your state senator or emailing your representative. In order for our elected officials to make ending homelessness a priority, we need to let them know that it’s a priority for their constituents. And sometimes we need to educate them about policies that can make things better for our communities.
      3. Keep the conversation going. Share stories related to homelessness and poverty on your social media channels. Talk about it with your friends, and invite them to join you in taking advocacy actions.

      Our friends at the Seattle University Project on Family Homelessness have put together a more expansive list of 15 things you can do to help end family homelessness: http://projectonfamilyhomelessness.org/what-can-we-do/

      Thanks for reading our blog and asking this question. I hope you’ll join our advocacy efforts! -Denise

  • Cynthia ham

    I lived most of 2014 homeless. I know what it feels like. Sitting on a corner holding a sign, just trying to get $1.00 for a gallon of water to go back to a tent we called home. Gather broken limbs from the trees to cook up top ramon. My husband and I, no children, so we could not stay at the shelter. If we did he would be in the mens, and I in the womans. We refused to separate, we were all we had, just each other. We thought we found a place, but because I wouldn’t have sex with the other people, we were given 2 hours to pack what we could. We, again were on the streets. We had a roof over our heads for a month!
    Sitting there crying, embarrassed holding a sign, just for food. While most just looking at us in discuss. Homelessness isn’t something we chose, but life has it’s downloads. It wasn’t easy for either of us, me being disabled. Most of the stress being laid in my husband’s lap. The whole story is so long, what we did just to get through a day could count a nightmare.
    The only reason we have a place right now is due to a child hood friend. She bought us tickets back to Washington, and offered us the basement of her house.
    It is horrible sleeping on the streets, holding onto a knife all night while you tried to get some sleep! Dodging water sprinklers in the parks at night, while you tried to sleep. Or swiping cockroaches off your body all night, sleeping in doorways, in between garbage dumpsters. Anyway, nobody deserves to be there, I do believe that we need to get some good funds to help get people off the streets. Right now I still have friends out there, ones who stayed with us, we stuck together like family. I worry about them a lot. Sometimes I feel guilty, because I can’t help.

    • Thanks for sharing your story. The things you went through while experiencing homelessness sound awful, and I agree that nobody deserves to be in that situation. There ARE ways you can help! You can help our elected officials understand how people come to experience homelessness, what it’s like trying to survive without a safe home, and solutions to homelessness — like creating more affordable housing. Your story is powerful, and it can help change our leaders’ minds and ultimately our public policies. Please contact me if you’d like to connect with opportunities to share your story and spark change! -Denise dmiller [at] ywcaworks [dot] org

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